As a teen, your son faces a daunting and compelling constellation of developmental challenges. The male teen’s mind swirls with questions of identity, connection, belonging, dependency, strength, loyalty and masculinity. It is a time of intense searching and turmoil.
“Who am I?” and “How can I fit in?” are burning questions that provide organizing energy and focus, while potentially fueling destructive decision-making.
Individual and Group Therapy sessions at Muir Wood are designed to meet teens at their unique development stage. We normalize the intensity and turmoil of this stage of development while reviewing the impact of the choices they have made. In this way, we introduce teens to what some experts have called “the male mode of feeling.”
The questions that directly pertain to teens’ development are taken up in an active way. These include considering how a man works, plays, and shows love, anger, and nurturance. When does he cry, how does he manage intense feelings, how does he understand and honor the changes in his body, how does he learn and what does he have to teach others? As we meet teen teens at this level of development and normalize not only the intensity but also the critical meaning in these questions, we engage them in a process that ensures they make a project of their recovery and their lives.















