Category: Teen Intervention

Teen Intervention: How to Approach Treatment with a Struggling Teen

It’s a common adage: The first step to recovery is admitting you need help. Teen intervention allows families to confront substance abuse head-on and offer treatment for their struggling teen. Here’s information on what makes a successful intervention and some supportive resources.

Intervention Basics

Successful intervention looks different for each teen and his or her family, but any approach starts with open communication. Parents who suspect substance abuse can open the conversation by:

Restating the house rules regarding substance use
Providing proof of the substance use
Sharing concerns about addiction
Setting restrictions regarding substance use
Praising the teen for the thingsthey’ve done right
Some parents find that they learn a significant amount about their teen’s drug use during an impromptu intervention like this. With this information, they may be able to curb drug use without professional intervention, or calmly introduce the idea of a treatment program.

Intervention Models

If a family holds an informal intervention without success, a more intensive intervention might be required. There are various intervention models. Direct intervention is the most common. It’s often seen in movies or on reality tv (family members and friends plan a surprise intervention and confront the user with proof of an addiction).

Other models include invitational intervention which seeks to educate and address the entire family’s role in the teen’s addiction. Love First intervention focuses on the family expressing love and support.

Intervention with Professional Support

Bringing in an expert to support an intervention is an excellent way to help families keep intervention conversations safe and productive. Many people use family mediators or sober escorts in their intervention process with teens—and Muir Wood can provide contacts to perform these roles.

Mediators will run the intervention, providing an experienced and objective third-party perspective. They will answer any questions you have about treatment before the intervention event, and they will be firm and focused in helping participants to be a productive part of the intervention. Sober escorts help your family transition to treatment after an intervention. They offer moral support as your teenager prepares for recovery and provide supervision and security as your teen travels to a rehab center.

No matter what method is used, there should be a residential treatment program chosen before the intervention. This allows an immediate transition into care if the teen agrees to residential treatment.

Convincing Your Teenager to Undergo Treatment

Treatment is most effective when teens understand why it’s necessary and commit themselves to recovery. Parents can use these techniques when discussing treatment with their teens.

Stress Individuality

When teens see their peers using substances, the behavior becomes normalized and they may not understand why they should seek treatment. Parents should stress the differences in individuals: each teen has a different genetic background and different susceptibility levels for addiction or other negative consequences. Teens should be encouraged to address their substance use, regardless of the behavior of others.

Break Through Denial

Teens might vehemently deny that they have an addiction, claiming their use is minimal, normal, or without consequence. This kind of denial can be blamed, in part, on the brain cell damage an addiction can cause. However, concrete proof of use or consequences can often persuade teens to see reality. Parents may show evidence of drug use, including paraphernalia, arrests, fights, or physical illness to break through to their teen.

Show Compassion

Some teens turn to substance abuse because they have very real underlying mental health issues that they don’t know how to address. They may fear that sobriety means their distress will become worse. Parents can help by sharing information about dual-diagnosis treatment for addressing mental health alongside substance use treatment. Parents can also show compassion for the teen’s overall wellness, including mental health issues that pre-date the drug use.

Focus on Motivation

Parents commonly outline their own reasons for seeking recovery when they discuss treatment with their teens rather than listening to their teen’s point of view. Many teens have their own motivation for getting sober, such as wanting to reach goals or find more sustained relief from distress. To tap into this motivation, parents might ask their teens questions about drug use and how it aligns with their desires. These questions can force a teen to think about the consequences of drug use and the benefits of treatment.

Treatment and Intervention for Teenagers with Muir Wood

Crisis interventions for teens are often the first step toward healing. Muir Wood treats substance use as it co-occurs with mental health diagnoses. We believe that this comprehensive approach to wellness leads to long-term success. Learn more about our approach to treatment and the conditions we treat.

If your teen needs treatment, contact us today. We can point you to interventionists if desired. And we’ll support you throughout your teen’s residential treatment, including the intervention phase.

Further Reading

Intervention Models of Approach Used on Teen Addicts
Sober Escort


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